I have mentioned this same behavior in female majority fandoms where the women are doing the same shitty behavior to the male actors right to their face at conventions that they scream their heads off about when male fans do it to female actors.

Let's just say I am not the most popular person in the room when I mention that.

I get so tired of it too and I feel so sorry for the male actors having to watch everything they say and do towards women while female fans are acting totally inappropriate towards them. I just don't get it, yes they're hot. So what. Get over it and don't be screaming at them to take their shirts off when they get on stage at a con. Grow up.